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BlackSteel Modular BDSM Spreader Bar

BlackSteel Modular BDSM Spreader Bar

Regular price $35.99 USD
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In the box: 5 black steel bars, 2 adjustable handcuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 1 neck collar, 1 × 50 cm connecting rope, carabiners, screws

Bar material: Premium reinforced steel, black finish, rust-resistant

Cuff and collar lining: Soft leather

Assembled lengths: 85 cm (4 bars) · 62 cm (3 bars) · 46 cm (2 bars)

Connectors: Heavy-duty climbing-grade carabiners with secure screws

Assembly: Fully detachable, tool-free

Fit: Adjustable, suits most body types

Colour: Black throughout

Packaging: Neutral, no logos or labels

Designed for: Couples, beginners through experienced


Why You'll Love It

Three bars in one kit. Most spreader bars give you a single fixed width. This builds to 46, 62, or 85 cm — narrow and manageable, standard, or fully spread. You're buying three products.

Climbing-grade carabiners. These are load-rated connectors, screwed rather than clipped. Nothing works loose mid-scene, and that's what lets you stop thinking about the hardware.

Leather against skin, steel where it counts. The cuffs and collar are leather-lined and non-irritating even through extended wear — a different experience from the nylon and fabric cuffs at this price.

A collar in the box. Wrists, ankles, and throat all covered, plus a 50 cm connecting rope. Nothing else to buy.

Packs down to nothing. Two bars at 46 cm fits a suitcase. The whole kit disassembles in seconds and reassembles without tools.

Steel that lasts. Reinforced steel with a black finish — no bending, no rust, no replacing it next year.

All-black throughout. Bars, hardware, cuffs, and collar match. It looks like a considered set rather than assembled parts.

Arrives with nothing on the outside. Neutral packaging, no logos, no labels.


How to Use

Negotiate first. Agree limits and a safeword before anything is clipped.

Build the bar. Combine 2, 3, or 4 bars for your chosen length, screwing each connection fully closed. Check every joint is tight before use — a modular bar has more connection points than a fixed one, and a loose screw is the failure point.

Fit the cuffs and collar. Adjust each so a finger slides comfortably underneath. The collar sits at the base of the neck with two fingers of room, never restricting breathing.

Clip to the bar using the carabiners, and screw the gates closed.

Check the spread. No strain at the hips or groin. Start narrower than you think you want — you can rebuild longer.

Support their balance. A spread stance limits stability. Stay close and take their weight as they shift.

Stay in the room. Never leave a restrained partner unattended.

Release at once at the safeword, or at any numbness, tingling, colour change, cramping, or hip and groin strain.

Aftercare. Unclip the bar first, then the cuffs and collar. Stretch out hips and shoulders and check in properly.


Care Instructions

Wipe the leather cuffs and collar with a soft, damp cloth after use — never soak

Wipe the steel bars and carabiners dry to protect the black finish

Air dry everything fully before storing

Disassemble the bars for compact, flat storage

Check screws, carabiner gates, and buckles before every use

Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight


Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What's included in this spreader bar kit?

5 black steel bars, 2 handcuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 1 neck collar, a 50 cm connecting rope, plus carabiners and screws.

What lengths does the bar make?

Three: 85 cm using 4 bars, 62 cm using 3 bars, and 46 cm using 2 bars.

How do the bars connect?

With heavy-duty climbing-grade carabiners and secure screws, so nothing loosens during use.

What are the cuffs made of?

They're lined with soft leather — smooth, skin-friendly, and non-irritating for extended wear.

Is it adjustable?

Yes. The cuffs and collar adjust, and the bar itself rebuilds to three different lengths.

Is it easy to travel with?

Yes. It disassembles fully, and the 46 cm build packs down small.

Do I need tools to assemble it?

No — assembly and disassembly are tool-free.

Is it suitable for beginners?

Yes. Start at the 46 cm length and build longer as you both get comfortable.

Will the steel rust?

It's reinforced steel with a rust-resistant black finish. Wipe it dry after use to keep it that way.

What colour is it?

Black throughout — bars, hardware, cuffs, and collar.

Does it ship discreetly?

Yes, in neutral packaging with no logos or labels.

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